Taking the time...
We take the time to vacation, have special dinners, paint houses. Have you ever taken the time to go grieve? I mean step away from this world, a society that's based on money equals success. If you've never done such a thing, I highly suggest the mental time.
I had many memorable experiences while traveling the country in my time of exile, but a rainy night in Oregon is one I will never forget. Settling into my sleeping bag, the constant patter of rain on the metal roof. Watching the rain drops hit my windows and slowly making their way down down the mini rivers that formed. The time was priceless in my journey here, to this place within.
If you've never taken the time to grieve, from experience, I recommend it.